You know that sensation. Standing in front of a display case with a million similar pendants shining from the light, and wondering if you are buying something that will say what I am trying to say. It’s a good idea to listen to that internal voice. Generally, it is when we opt for something safe vs something authentic.
Via Unsplash
Look At What They Are Wearing Before Looking At New Options
Look at what they have on today (not looking at what is displayed) before you even consider purchasing anything. Do they consistently wear very small gold earrings, or do they stack many items of jewelry together? Do they wear grandma’s ring on a chain around her neck because it does not fit comfortably on her hand? Their tendencies offer much more insight than any “best of” listing can. Almost all meaningful jewelry gifts will reflect something that the recipient has already selected for themselves, either by expanding upon it slightly.
Have The Event Determine The Symbolism Of The Piece Rather Than The Price Tag
Most gift guides suggest you spend more money as the event becomes larger. This is counterintuitive. The event should influence the significance of the piece, and the significance should determine the type and quality of the piece. For example, a first-year wedding anniversary may require a quieter, more personal item that is worn underneath clothing. At the same time, a milestone birthday may require a bolder piece that is easily noticeable. Think about what this particular event signifies before you worry about how expensive it needs to be.
If In Doubt, Opt For Personalisation Over Polishing
When deciding between two options, and one option has some form of personalisation and the other is polished but lacks personalisation, choose the option with the personalisation. A birthstone, initials, coordinates, etc. These are a few examples of personalisation details. These elements rarely show as nicely in photographs as perfectly cut stones; however, they clearly convey thoughtfulness when selecting jewelry for someone, versus being a rushed purchase based on categories.
Consider How They Wish To Be Perceived
Some individuals prefer their jewelry to blend seamlessly into their daily attire, while others wish for their jewelry to make a statement. Misjudging these preferences is likely the reason why so many sincere jewelry gifts sit in drawers. Observe how they style their attire for everyday occasions and not only special events, and you’ll generally be able to ascertain which direction to head.
Rely On The Story Behind The Piece More Than The Trend
The trend will come and go; the story behind each piece will remain. A simple chain purchased due to its ability to remind them of memories past will endure longer than a bold statement piece purchased solely for popularity during a given season. When faced with choosing between two potential purchases, select the one you can describe using only one genuine sentence.
Ultimately, the piece that is worn for years will never be the one that captures everyone’s attention while still in the store. It will be the one who felt like it was theirs from day one.
Post a Comment